yipee!

according to ivillage.com, i am almost over the messy part...

The break-up test

You're looking for Mr Right now
Well, there's good news and bad news. The good news is this: you're halfway there. It probably wasn't the nicest break-up, but you're past the messy part. Now for the bad news: even though you're no longer wading through boxes of tissues everyday, you've still got some post-break-up recovering to do. Our best advice is to take it slow, talk through all your feelings with an understanding friend or counsellor and trust that you are going to get over him. One word of warning: falling into bed with a new man might be fun at the time, but a rebound relationship won't cure your ailing heart.

ok, so fine, i may have cheated on some of the questions, but hey, they did say pretend that it was like a week from now. so, in a week from now, i'll be this. i promise i'll be this.